Guilt is a Heavy Burden

My life had enough misery without adding the burden of guilt. I was getting a guilty pleasure out of the misfortune I was adding to my persecutor's life. Did I have the right to feel pleasure at the misery of another, even if the other was my tormentor?

At first I didn't see the harm in feeling the way I did. At first I was so elated he was getting some of what he gave. The scale was not in my favor but every bit of pain he suffered was a relief to my pain. I could think of nothing else but how I could make his life as miserable as mine.

Then like a big red brick it hit me. I began beating myself up for feeling pleasure I gained from his misery. How could I stoop to that level? How could I become like him? I began to fear I would become him. I vowed I would never to be like him.

It took everything in me but I fought the urge to find revenge. Was real revenge even possible anyway?

Still the guilty burden weighed on me. Holding me down, burying me in deep despair. Even with the guilt I felt the pleasure his pain brought was still there. The thought that I could find pleasure in his pain even with my guilt gave me a new sense of fear. I had an uphill battle on my hands but persevered until I was able to stop the urge to torment my tormentor. I found it impossible to not find a glimmer of happiness at his anguish. I longed to hear he had found pain through means other than my own. I knew if I were to survive I would have to overcome the feeling of pleasure at his pain.

I needed to unload my burden but I again I had nobody to unload on. So I wrote. The guilt held me in it's grip long after I had given up on my revenge. I believe I carried my burden for many years.